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What do you think of this?
What do you think of this?
I have alot of animals, 7 dogs, 4 cats, Guinea Pigs, reptiles, and a vast amount of others. I have acreage and the farm animals are there. We have a 2 car heated garage that we transformed into the "Animal Sanctuary". It has couches, area rugs, chairs, sofas, an old tv with vcr to play animal appropriate videos. The cat boxes are out there in a fenced perimeter from the dogs with a kitty door in the wall. The dogs stay in this room when I am gone and most of the day but we go out and socialize with them ALOT. I have a 1 year old and they have to be in that room now more than ever cause 2 of the dogs have issues with children but I wont give them up. I have a forever home for them. They are also a tightly bonded pack so I dont want to split them. They do get to come in the house daily and play. They have a huge fenced in yard, and most of the time are free to roam when we go to my parents farm. My question is:
Some friends of my finance came over the other night
and saw the room (it has a dutch door where the top is open to the house at all times so I can keep an eye on them. They were being quite rude and saying if I wanted a dog it should be in my home all the time, and not seperated, and why would I have a dog that doesnt like kids, then they went as far as saying if I wanted to keep them like that I should have left them in the shelter. Needless to say I was soooooo ticked off, but for my fiances sake I kept my tounge till they left. I work with fosters, and abused animals. All these pets were previous fosters except my 2 show corgi's. One of the dogs I even rescued from the streets of Casablanca, Morocco. Do you think I keep these dogs cruely? Is it not fair they are in there? I thought I was doing them good. Should I let them in my house more???? I have a outdoor shed for the small animals that is kept temperature controlled since the reptiles are there too, they turned there nose up at that!!! whats the problem? any comments?
Sorry Alli there isnt enough characters to finish out the story it was the only way I could get it on here.
GO BLUE I did it takes a while give it a second
to clarify, the room IS connected to the house, and to myself it IS part of my home. To me its no diffrent and better than crating a dog all day in a cramped crate. Me and my Fiance go out there and sit with the dogs, they have a dog door and are allow run of the yard, when my daughter is napping they have run of the house. We go on walks every night. Its not like they are not getting our attention. The cats have full run of the house. I do not work any longer (i was a shelter manager\investigator for 9 years) so I am home all day. The small animals get looked in on and played with 3 times a day. I dont think they are wanting for human contact but I could be wrong thats why I am asking
The 2 dogs that have problems, were here before my daughter came. They have been severely beaten and neglected. They are not aggressive towards her, but deathly AFRAID of her. When she was a tiny baby, if she cried they would litterally have panick attacks. Peekaboo my coonhound mix would go comatose and lay behind the couches, and Rain my Basett/Lab mix would potty all over the house. My daugher is 1, and she is GREAT with animals, we see to it, but The 2 still cant be around her with out these panick attacks. So I am not that worried about them attacking her. My Cane Corso/Pitt cross Siggy absolutely adores her like a baby of his own, and my Corgi's think she's there daughter. Blanca my Morrocan street dog loves the vaccum cleaner more than anything or anyone so no big deal, and Indiana is indiffrent shes a diva... so I dont worry about my daughters saftey I worry more of the dogs health and sanity
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2008-03-21 07:54:31
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2008-03-21 07:56:02
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2008-03-21 07:57:14
However, it does sound like you provide adequate shelter and basic needs are met for each animal. Still, don't see much difference between what you are offering your animals and what a good shelter offers them. Sorry.
2008-03-21 08:00:34
2008-03-21 08:05:53
I have a 9 year old dog that despite 6 years of training with multiple trainers, socialization and everything else on the planet worth trying she is STILL highly dog aggressive. It got to the point to where my husband was badly bitten trying to break up a fight she had picked with my male and we decided we just couldn't deal with her doing that anymore. Rehoming her was not an option because of her age and aggression level so rather than put her to sleep we made her a kennel on our screened in porch and she lives out there where she is separated from all other dogs. Our lives are much better, the other dogs don't have to worry about being attacked and she is happier, probably because she isn't on edge anymore. She has a 10x10 HUGE kennel with toys, a comfy bed to sleep on and she gets walked and played with throughout the day, and luckily we live in a warm climate so she doesn't have to be out in the cold. How is that a bad life?
As long as you make enough time to go out and spend with your dogs, they don't care if they are indoors or in a garage. Shelter is shelter to them.
Don't worry about it, your dogs are fine.
2008-03-21 08:09:57
2008-03-21 08:11:50
ps: DON'T LISTEN TO WHAT OTHERS THINK OF YOU!!!!!!
2008-03-21 08:16:54
2008-03-21 08:35:00
Like you I have worked many years in rescue & we have owned many animals at any one time as well as rearing a family of four in a fairly average sized 3 bedroomed house in England. Fortunately at one time at least 2 rabbits, 2 cats, 6 dogs, 2 g/pigs happily interacted together & had freedom of my home with access indoors & outdoors at all times, even two cocktiels indoors where safe to fly free in the home & interact with all the other animals. Reptiles & other small animals were kept in appropriate housing in the same areas but always needed supervised freedom.
With this experience I have to say it is very time consuming to care for all the proper husbandry for many animals at one time & to provide quality individual attention to each one every day as well as run a family home. People with more than one child will know this itself takes a lot of juggling to provide the attention each one seeks, there are never enough hours in the day! This said I think we all know in our hearts whether we are doing our best & whether we are really meeting everyones needs, sometimes just loving an animal is not enough.
I hope if I had an animal that I loved dearly but deep down knew that it really needed/deserved more time than I could give it & someone else could love it & provide the individual care & attention it deserved I would sacrifice my own hurt & for selfless reasons let the animal go to a more suitable home. As an animal worker you must know sometimes an animal has to parted from somethings that it enjoys (like members of its pack) to be placed where it & they can live a much better, happier & enjoyable way of life more suited to everyone needs. We must all sometimes be honest with ourselves & accept we may not always able to offer what is best.
If you can honestly say in your heart you believe each of your animals is better off staying with you & you truely believe these 'friends' were just being too unrealistic & soft about the needs of animals then I see absolutely no reason why you should doubt yourself or your motives for keeping all of your animals the way that you do.
This is not a critisism of the way you keep your animals its just my dogs are part of my everyday home & are around us always if they want, I cannot imagine excluding any of them from the house. I dont actually even have a problem with dogs staying in rescue kennels looking for a new home if they are loved & cared for with a regular routine, & believe me when you work in rescue you want to take them all home...its just the ultimate happy end result for each of them & the biggest reward is to let them go to a loving new home where they will get lots of individual attention.
I have absolutely no doubt about your love for all your animals or that you keep them in proper conditions, only you can answer your question about what is the best life for each of your animals & if you are meeting each of their very individual needs. Dont take any notice of people who do not genuinely understand.
Best wishes x
PS: Sorry to add even more but I forgot to mention although all my dogs where/are great with children of all ages I would NEVER leave them alone with any child, it is a big mistake to trust any animal with even one single animal as they all have the potential to do unimaginable harm. I would never keep an animal that I knew definately posed a threat to my children or grandchildren. If possible I would do my best to find it the best possible responsible & knowledgable home where it could enjoy a full life with no need to encounter any children in its home.
2008-03-21 10:09:17
It's better than many dogs have. A dog chained up outside--without companionship, forgotten meals, little shelter. Or a dog "saved" by certain rescue groups that spends its life in a cage until it can find a home. I don't want to be critical of these groups, but that's hardly a happy life.
Don't beat yourself up over your set up. People will always be critical. Most people have moved towards the "animal rights crazies" side of the spectrum without even realizing it.
2008-03-21 13:15:46
Take no notice of the folk who criticised your situation it sounds to me as though they are the sort of people who think animals think like humans.
You know what you are doing and as your daughter grows and becomes more mobile and inquisitive just make sure she cant accidentally access the dogs who she shouldn't. But I think I'm maybe trying to teach grandma to suck eggs here aren't I!
2008-03-21 15:03:10
Terrier: Unfortunately there's so much misinformation spread around that I'm pretty sure that whatever you do you'll be called "cruel" by somebody.
Can you give that many animals the care they need? That's the only consideration. I certainly couldn't look after that many animals properly. Look at yourself honestly. If you feel that your animals are cared for well enough then carry on as you are. If not, you have changes to make.
I see nothing INHERENTLY wrong with your set-up. Granted, I can't see it for myself, but from what you tell me I get the impression you've given this a lot of consideration and are doing an excellent job.
2008-03-22 03:16:53